By sweetestdesire February 22, in Dating Advice. I'm a little hesitant about the age difference because i haven't dated as old as him, although he does not look You could quite possibly still be a child living with parents, financially dependent, no carreer while he's an adult mortgage, career, etc man if this is the case, you're at risk of being manipulated without really understanding what's happening to you.
If you like him years I wouldn't let 7 years bother you it's not that long. Just keep in mind that both of you will probably be at different phases in your life. That may or may not interfere with the relationship. I dated someone a lot older before for about 1 week after we were friends for almost a whole year.
During that week we had fun, but we figured that the age difference would eventually destroy us. He would become old. Luckily you don't have to deal with this issue as 7 years really isn't that long.
It will take some getting used to on your part, but that is normal. If you like him, you like him right? If you two get along, then why let 7 years bother the relationship? There will probably be times when he acts his age, as you do yours, but if you can both accept the age difference, you should be fine, and will probably get used to it. Have fun. Thanks TearsofFate! I feel like i can learn a lot from him as well as man from me. I am dating someone 7 years older, and my parents have a 7 year age difference.
It's no big deal. It can be a bigger deal at your age if older are at the stage where you hadn't quite figured out exactly who you are yet. So I don't take much stock in it. When i was going with a guy who was older than me at that age, I was not average as far as I didn't party, I was farther along in school since I skipped a grade and actually felt like I was more mature and I was the same as a 30 year old. However, in the next few years after that, I realized how ungrownup and immature I actually was when it came to handling certain personal issues in a relationship.
That stuff was all new to me and because i was very mature beyond my years in other ways, I sort of ignored it. So, enjoy the relationship but also be honest with yourself on where you are at in life and don't try to rush dating too fast.
My friend's daughter who is almost 21 just got engaged to a guy about 7 years older - and my friend had a 7-year age difference in her marriage when dating single woman dating in her early 20s -I don't man it's a big deal. I once date a girl 6 years younger for several months I think you're absolutely fine to be dating this guy since it dating you are wanting to skip the, I am 21 and I need to party like there's no tomorrow stage.
I started going out since i was 15 so i know what older going out scene is like. This would actually be my only concern. Not being able to handle situations in a "mature" way.
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Thank you for helping me see it in a different perspective. How did it turn out to be a joke Zanon? You think its harder when the sex is man versa. What was dating situation? Feels like I wrote this post. We have the same age difference.
Started dating when I just turned 22 and he was 28, turning 29 that year. We are coming up on two years and just started living together.
Couldn't be happier. I'm dating a guy who's six years older. He admitted that he was kind of worried when he found out my age because of the immaturity issue I'm 25, he's 31but I'm very mature for my age, have a good career, etc.
The ideal age-gap for dating is 6 years, where the man is older.
Haven't had any problems. Older different ages, but we're really at the same stage in life. In my case, I was 28 and she was She sometimes called me "Sir", in a cute, funny, loving way, in example. Jokes about me being almost 30 and her being "almost a teenager".
It may sound that she had problems with our age gap, but no, she didn't. We didn't have any committing problems either. She did have somethings she wanted to do even if we were to be together for the long-term, like buying her own house. She was almost graduating from college and already had a job, so there was no problem, really.
But things didn't work out as we both wanted, so we went our separate ways. Nothing related to our age gap. And we're still friends, by the way. The fact alone that he's considering it is already good. If he never thought about it, and is considering it now, because of you, then it's a very very good sign. Hm, I don't know if I'd agree that you are more 'advanced'.
Are you working full time in a career like position while you go to school? If not, or if you're working something temporary to pay the bills while you go to school, then the two of you do have a pretty big difference that you might not years. If he's working 2 jobs now and has no solid plans to further his education, he could very likely be doing the job now that he'll be doing for the next 40 years. That means his social circle is 'set' in a "years." As is his financial future.
You on the other hand have a vast unknown career landscape ahead of you that could take you in a radically different direction that where you're at right now. So where in a few years you might be a lawyer making lots of money and hanging around with other laywers and politicians, he'll be exactly like he is today.
I'd say based on this you two are at pretty different stages of life right just click for source. School is really hard work and unless a person is self motivated, it can just be a big waste of time and money with loans, dropped classes, etc. I am actually. Mon-Fri It's not the field i received my A.
A in but it's one I'm interested in. I wanted to try different fields before I choose my career. For older adults, adults who go back just to finish their general ED, just to say they did it. He can be one of years people. It's never too late to hookups tiktok successful. I see having a further education as a safety net but you don't have to use. Geez, enjoy it while you can!!!
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I took it as a learning experience I never wanted to date a 'drinker' Nobody is asking you to marry the guy I have a 20 yr. October Monday at PM. All Activity Home Dating someone 7 years older than me. Dating someone 7 years older than me.
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Posted February 22, I'm starting to date a 28 year old, I'm We seem to have a lot in common, sense of humor, sports teams, goals in life etc. Has anyone dated someone older, what was it like? Any advice input would be appreciated.
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