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Follow us. A few years ago, during a transition between jobsI decided to go dating my first and, so far, only solo holiday. Alone spent a long, very relaxing, alone in Venice, reading in cafes, visiting exhibitions, and wandering around the city listening to music. Then, when I came home, I felt imbued with a newfound confidence to do other things alone, too. The more I did it, the more self-assured and in touch with myself I became.

And, yes, I know this all sounds very smug, but whatever! Now this concept of solo dating is taking off on TikTok. The solodate hashtag currently has over million views, with each video waxing lyrical about the benefits of dating yourself out. The videos tend to follow the same pattern — the poster takes us with them on their solo day out, filming their visit to the cinema, a market, an exhibition, a library, or out for dinner.

This content can also be viewed on the site it originates from. Dixon believes solo dates are a reaction to the rise of TikTok therapy and renewed online interest in attachment theory.

Spending time alone — and thus feeling more comfortable by themselves — is a good starting point to achieve this. During all of these times, Kaur avoids her phone.

Afterwards, I always feel very happy, loved, and spoiled. When you look at dating solodate hashtag on TikTok, most of the videos are shared by women, who have also been at the forefront of the self-care movement more broadly.

For year-old Steven Mckell alone, who recently moved to Lincoln, his biweekly solo dates have worked as great motivation to explore a new city. The dates have an added benefit for Mckell, who says he sometimes struggles being around other people. Solo dates allow you to make an effort for yourself and your own happiness and mental health.

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This focus on investment in the self is a sea change from putting all our stock in romantic relationships, which has historically been encouraged by the media and society more broadly. Self-love is difficult to master, and will likely require work beyond a regularly-scheduled solo date — but learning to enjoy your own company and indulge yourself in the occasional hedonistic day will at least set you on the right path.

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