A blessing for some, a curse for others, and a whole lot of heartbreaking confessions.

Here's the truth about marriage that married men want singles to know.

Married men and I are willing to give one another the same thing. It's great! Best 'relationships' I've ever been in. Low maintenance, high fun! I think people would be surprised by just how many people are cheating out there. If you are gonna married around with a married person, you have to be okay with not being a top priority. If you're looking for a future spouse, go find someone single.

He told me things, and it all just built towards being divorced. But he left out that there was another marriage with kids after that one. It men probably two months before I found out. He told me their relationship had been dead for years, they live separate lives but in the same house and just coparent their very young kids until they could figure out a formal split.

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It went on for over 2 years, during which he did formally separate from his wife. I went to school with the guy, and his wife I was friends with on Facebook and would chat to her sometimes. All I could think about was his poor wife, and why the heck I was doing what I did. I did stop it though, after times. He messaged me a few times in later months and years, twice was when he was drunk, and once was threatening me men telling his wife ex-wife by this time.

Some will marry friends; others will marry other members because dating they both get more money. Adultery for happens to be a punishable offense. The circumstances do not matter. When I found out the guy I was dating was married to a friend, so he could send her money, I flipped out and ended things. Sorry, no dick is worth the consequences, which includes a reduction in rank and dating pay cut. No thank you. He knew what I went through, and he intentionally men me in the position of being the other woman — and after all that, he played the victim when I broke up with him.

We both were looking for something different relationship-wise, and we agreed that if we found someone serious, we would end what we had. Three years have gone by, and all of a sudden, he ghosted me. I figured he found someone, link he was too portland hookups in dating say anything.

Four months later, he asked to meet up. I agreed just for closure. For three years I had no idea he was married. I feel like crap, this poor lady who was sick was being cheated on. Who does that? I felt disgusted and angry. I figured hey, if I were the wife, I would want to know. Google and FB for me to her quickly and easily. She was glad I told her. They got for. I am big on monogamy. Now he is trying to contact me again.

Honestly, he is the type of risk I am willing to take. He brings out another side of me that I never felt. He makes me feel so strong and weak at the same time. My favorite were men who loved their wives but wanted some on the side. We are in it for mutual sexual men only, no feelings. This has been going on for three years now. Oh, his wife showed up for and took a hammer to my car window.

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I heard from him eight months later, he claims they men getting divorced now…. Too late buddy. A month after he became a dad, he ended it for fear of losing his kid. This has been the hardest heartbreak to recover from in my life. I completely missed the little things because I was trying to give him the benefit of the doubt. I felt like a home wrecker.

I felt dumb.

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I was the coworker who got knocked up. I really got feelings, and when he left to meet her for a holiday in Europe, I was devastated. He really was just a good person who made a massive fuck up. He told me he was going dating tell her — we agreed she deserved honesty — but surprise surprise, he chickened out and never told her. Still makes me sad for myself and her. He was married. I thought the affair dating a married one-time physical fling. He wanted more. He said he was in an almost loveless and toxic marriage with very little intimacy.

I believed him and still do. I witnessed married few interactions between him and his wife. We decided to for to make a full-blown relationship out of it.

There was always the stress of 'What if she finds out guy dating asian takes the kids? I love him deeply, purely, and with all of my heart. Unfortunately for me, that stood for nothing in the end. I believed him, he was so sincere. I fell deeply in love with him, keeping it a secret because of our working relationship. We took trips together, and he met my family. It took some years for the realization to sink in. I heard rumors and gossip about other women, and he always convinced me crazy women married up the stories.

I started to feel as if I was going insane, living with paranoia and distrust. I feel very stupid for believing him.