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Some forums can only be seen by registered members. View detailed profile Advanced or search site with Search Forums Advanced. Originally Posted by 3littlebirdies. He probably tells her that you wouldn't leave him alone not that its true and that is why she is badgering you about click at this page you talk about and he blows you off when you mention it. He made his choice and sticking on the side where his bread is buttered. In addition, he made you look like a crazy liar to the big boss.
In short, you are in danger and best start looking dating another job. Stop talking to your so called "friend" so much and you'll be fine. Sounds like he's manipulating the situation and it could get you in a heap of drama. Originally Posted by emj In the last couple of months I have learned that my boss and my co worker, forum is a close friend of mine, are having a romantic relationship.
I always thought relationships between a supervisor blossom dating sign up a subordinate were a big no no since it creates a conflict of interest and seems unethical. I'd also document all this and what ever else comes up. I'd quit talking to your "friend" as he really is no friend at all.
Orrrr the next time boss lady asks you what you were talking about, tell her you were talking about her! Here's a really wacky, strange idea: go to work and do your job.
Then leave at the end of the day. The next day, get up, go to work, and again--do your job. This seems to be a dating hard thing for people to understand. You are in a very vulnerable situation. I was in the same one--coworker secretly dating the boss we both reported to. I was getting shut out of projects and knowledge as they had their "closed door meetings.
Smartest thing I ever did to protect myself and my career. Later, when she is within earshot, pretend that you are calling HR and talk in pig-latin with the person on the other end about the Ho-day, screwing the boss-ay, in the copy room-ay. Do this with different scenarios over and over again for as long as it takes for her to flip out and get hauled away. My boss knows that I am close friends with my co worker and now she is always butting into our conversations asking what we are talking about.
If he comes over to help me figure out a problem or even just says hey, she gets angry and demands to know why he is talking to me and what we were talking about. If she sees us saying hi as we pass by each other she will glare at me. The look on her face is frightening. Recently he told her we were talking privately and she pulled me into her office and repeatedly asked me what I talked to him about and I told her if I wanted to talk to her, I would and it was none of her business.
She kept pressuring me to answer until I just got up and ran out of the office. On her days off she calls him at work and they spend hours talking on the phone or sometimes she will come in and they will be in the back hanging out and talking. I find this to be a huge problem because then I am left to pick up the slack.
I have talked to him about it and he rolls his eyes and says I worry too much. I am extremely uncomfortable with this and I want it to stop. I don't know how dating proceed. I did speak to her manager about the issue and she tried to talk to both of them but they have denied the affair and I don't know what management can do then. I don't care if they date, secretly or openly, I just don't like what's happening at work and how I am now having to deal with her nosiness when I am just asking my friend how his weekend was.
I feel I am losing my friend over this situation as well. We no longer talk or hang out outside of work. Anyone else go through something like this?
Any suggestions on how to dating with it? I will lose my friendship if I have to but I can't take the work problems that have come with it. Is this something forum could get her fired? Am I going to be forced to just live with this forever? Use this against your boss I bet you can get a few free things. Use it or lose it. Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Additional giveaways are planned. Detailed information about all U. Posting Quick Reply - Please Wait. Search this Thread Advanced Search.
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