I find it genuinely bizarre that having sex with a man 20 years older than you is still taboo. During dinner with a friend recently, she asked me, with one eyebrow raised, what I think the main difference is between sleeping with older men versus younger men. Their grimaces are the giveaway. If a guy has grey hair on his head, is it a surprise if he has grey hair downstairs? And better that than if he'd been dying them.
Clue: it's not just grey pubes
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We met at a medical conference in a Seattle hotel, where he was speaking. When I got chatting to Michael, who was sitting at my table, we began with the usual small talk until he found out I was a visitor to the city. As he started describing his favourite dive bars on Capitol Hill, he lit up and I felt the first hint of something Before I knew it, I found myself flirting back — brushing my hair away from my face, touching my chest, laughing just that little bit too loudly. In his room, he mixed a gin and tonic from the minibar. I took a sip before putting my glass down and pulling him towards me. I thought he might be hesitant, but he started kissing me and almost immediately unbuttoned my jeans. As he stripped off, I saw he was in good shape, and had a broad chest and muscular legs. Michael manoeuvred me towards the bed with strong arms, putting his hand down to touch me and telling me in a low voice exactly what he intended to do with me. Then, moving down my body, he began expertly licking me.
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